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SAMPLE INTERVIEW QUESTIONS

SAMPLE INTERVIEW QUESTIONS (Consular, adjustment of status, or marriage fraud interview)

1. Development of Your Relationship

• Where did you meet?

• What did the two of you have in common?

• Where did you go for dates?

• When did your relationship turn romantic?

• How long was it before you decided to get married?

• Who proposed to whom?

• Why did you decide to have a [long, short] engagement?

• Did your parents approve of the match? Why or why not?

2. The Wedding

• How many people attended your wedding?

• Did each of your parents attend?

• Where was the wedding held?

• Was there music or other entertainment?

• What kind of cake (or other food) did you serve?

• Who were the bridesmaids/groomsmen?

• How late did the guests stay?

• Did the bride change clothes for the reception?

• Did you serve liquor? What kind?

• Did anyone get drunk or otherwise embarrass themselves at the reception? Who? Describe.

• What time did you and the [bride or groom] leave the reception?

• Did you go on a honeymoon? When did you leave? How did you get there? What airlines?

3. Regular Routines

• Who gets up first? At what time?

• How many alarm clocks do you set in the morning?

• Who makes breakfast?

• What do each of you eat for breakfast?

• Does your spouse drink coffee in the morning?

• What time do the working spouse or spouses arrive home?

• Who cleans the house?

• What day is your garbage picked up?

• Who takes care of paying the bills?

• Do you have a joint bank account? Where?

• Do you have a cat, dog, or other pet? Who feeds it? Who walks it (or cleans its kitty litter box, cage, etc.)?

• Do you and/or your spouse attend regular religious services? Where?

4. The Kids

• Who picks up the children at school?

• Who packs lunches for the kids?

• What are their favorite toys/activities?

• What are their least favorite foods?

• Which children (if any) still use a car seat?

• What is your usual babysitter’s name?

5. The Cooking

• How many times a week on average do you eat out?

• What is your favorite restaurant for special occasions? For weekly outings?

• Who does most of the cooking?

• Who does the grocery shopping? Where?

• Is there a particular food that you eat every week?

• What is your spouse’s favorite/least favorite food?

• What color are the kitchen curtains?

• Do you have a barbecue grill? Do you use it?

6. Other Family Members

• Have you met each other’s parents?

• How often do you see each other’s parents?

• When was the last time you saw them? Where? For how long?

• On important holidays, do you buy individual gifts for your parents-in-law? Do they buy individual

gifts for you?

• How do each of you get along with your parents-in-law?

• Which other members of your spouse’s family do you see frequently? When was the last time

you saw them? What did you do together?

7. Home Technology

• How many telephones are in your house? Where are they?

• Do you have an answering machine on your telephone? Who checks the messages?

• How many televisions are in the house? In which rooms? Do you watch shows together, or separately? Name one show that you always watch together.

• Do you have a VCR? Do you use it only to watch videos, or do you record any television

shows?

• Does your spouse listen to the radio? What station?

• How many cars do you have?

• Do you have a garage? Who parks in it? Do you use a garage door opener?

• Do you have a camera? Who uses it most often? Who takes pictures at important family

occasions?

8. In the Bedroom

• What size is your bed (Twin, Queen, or King)?

• Do you have a regular mattress, futon, or waterbed?

• How many windows are there in your bedroom?

• What color are your spouse’s pajamas?

• Who sleeps on each side of the bed?

• What form of contraception (birth control) do you use?

• When was your wife’s last menstrual period?

• Where do you keep your toothbrushes? What kind of toothpaste, soap, and shampoo does

each of you use?

• Do either of you read or watch television before going to sleep? Do you have lamps next

to your bed?

• Have you ever had an argument that resulted in one of you sleeping in another room? Who,

and which room?

9. The Rest of the House

• Do you live in a home or apartment? Who pays the mortgage or rent? How much is it?

• Is there a carpet in your front hallway? What color?

• Is your sofa a regular one or does it have a pull-out bed? Have you ever had house guests

sleep there?

• W hat type of curtains or window coverings are in your living room? What color?

• How many staircases are in your house?

• How many sinks, toilets, and showers are there in your house or apartment in total?

• Do you leave any lights on when you go to sleep at night?

10. Celebrations

• When is your spouse’s birthday?

• What did you do for your spouse’s last birthday?

• How did you celebrate your most recent wedding anniversary?

• What religious holidays do you celebrate together?

• What’s the most important holiday of the year in your household? Where do you typically

celebrateit?

• Have you and your spouse gone to see a movie or other form of entertainment lately? When, and what did you see?

• What did the two of you do last New Year’s Eve? Fourth of July?